{"id":8717873,"date":"2023-01-17T02:30:21","date_gmt":"2023-01-17T10:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eastbaytimes.com\/?p=8717873&preview=true&preview_id=8717873"},"modified":"2023-01-17T02:30:45","modified_gmt":"2023-01-17T10:30:45","slug":"ask-amy-trainer-gets-clients-pregnant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eastbaytimes.com\/2023\/01\/17\/ask-amy-trainer-gets-clients-pregnant\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Amy: I’m young and hot, and I just got two of my older clients pregnant"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Amy:<\/strong> I am a 23-year-old personal trainer. I’m good-looking and muscular and get hit on by older females.<\/p>\n

I was seeing a 38-year-old; she is in a long-term relationship, but her man wasn’t satisfying her, and we were hooking up three or four times a week.<\/p>\n

We went on a three-day bicycle trip last summer, and I got her pregnant with twins. (She forgot her birth control.)<\/p>\n

Her man knows the whole story and is willing to raise the babies and make me their godparent. I am glad he is willing to do that.<\/p>\n

I am currently seeing a 34-year-old beautiful, sexy, divorced girl, and we just found out I got her pregnant.<\/p>\n

I don’t know if I should offer to marry her, but I am thinking about it.<\/p>\n

Your advice?<\/p>\n

Tempting Trainer<\/em><\/p>\n

Dear Trainer:<\/strong> For someone whose professional expertise concerns the human body, you don’t seem to respect the longer-term ramifications of your fertility.<\/p>\n

At the ripe old age of 23, and over the course of just a few months, you are now the prospective biological father of (at least) three children.<\/p>\n

It’s vital that you grasp the basics of birth control, as well as the legal, financial and emotional repercussions and responsibilities of fathering children.<\/p>\n

You are obviously catnip for cougar kittens, and — given how cavalier you are about offering up your muscular DNA for procreating — you don’t seem mature enough to become a father or a husband.<\/p>\n

If you or your current or future sexual partners don’t want to raise children, always use a condom. Always. In fact, you might want to double up.<\/p>\n

Get tested for STDs, and urge your sexual partners to do the same.<\/p>\n

In terms of you offering to marry your girlfriend, I’ll put it this way: If she were writing to me, I would advise her not to become matrimonially entangled with you.<\/p>\n

It’s great that she is gorgeous and sexy, but you don’t mention loving — or even liking — her.<\/p>\n